Amakati abenathi iminyaka eyinkulungwane, nokho sisazibuza ukuthi acabangani ngathi. Ilukuluku ngomqondo wakhe wekati ikhule ngokuhambisana nokuduma kwayo ezindlini emhlabeni jikelele, futhi namuhla sinokubheka kanye nezifundo ezisisiza siqonde umbono wayo, imizwa yayo, kanye nendlela yayo ethile yokuxhumana nabantu.
Kude nama-clichés, ubufakazi buphakamisa ukuthi amakati asiqonda ngendlela yawo futhi azivumelanisa nokuhlalisana kwethu ngeqoqo eliyingqayizivele lamasignali. Ukuqonda indlela abasibona ngayo, abazizwa ngayo kanye nalokho abayilindele kanye nabo izici nobuntu Kuyisihluthulelo sokuthuthukisa isibopho kanye nokuphila kahle kwansuku zonke kokubili.
Kusukela epulazini kuya kombhede: umsuka wesibopho phakathi kwamakati nabantu
Umlando wabo owabelana ngawo uqala lapho abalimi bokuqala beqala ukugcina okusanhlamvu futhi amagundane avela ngobuningi; amakati adonswa kulo mthombo wokudla. Leso sivumelwano esingakahleleki -Uvikela izinqolobane zami, nginikeza indawo yokukhosela - kwakuyisiqalo sokuphilisana okusenezimpawu zokuzimela namuhla.
Emakhulwini eminyaka edlule, ubukhona bawo buye banda futhi bagcwala izimpawu ngokwamasiko, futhi namuhla singabona ukuhlukahluka kwe izinhlobo zekati zamazwe ngamazwe. EGibhithe lasendulo bathola isikhundla esingcwele, kuyilapho kwezinye izindawo babehlukana phakathi kokuhlonishwa nokusola. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi, indawo yabo ezindlini zethu ayingabazeki namuhla.
Ngokombono, amakati angaphezu kwezigidi ezingu-3,8 ahlala nemindeni e-United States, futhi acishe abe yizigidi ezingu-2020 abhaliswe eSpain ngo-XNUMX. Embulungeni yonke, kulinganiselwa ukuthi cishe kunamakati amathathu inja ngayinye., iqiniso elinikeza umbono wesisindo sangempela somkhathi wezinsikazi ekuphileni komuntu.
Isiko elidumile liphinde lalolonga isithombe sethu samakati ngokusebenzisa abalingisi abayisithonjana abafana no-Isidoro, u-Garfield, no-Tom. Lezo zithombe zigcwele imibono engaguquki -ubuhlakani obukhohlisayo, ubuthakathaka bokudla, ubuvila obuthandekayo-kushiye uphawu lwazo, nakuba akufani neze nobunkimbinkimbi bangempela bokuziphatha kwezinsikazi. Uma unezingane, bonisana izinhlobo cat for izingane uma udinga inketho yomndeni efanelekile.
Endle, zihlala zingabazingeli bendawo, abakwazi ukubonisa uthando olujulile kodwa ngejubane labo. Ngakho ukuhlalisana kwabo nathi Hlanganisa ukuthinta kokusondelana—ukuhlikihla, ukugoqa, ukuhlala eduze—nezikhathi lapho bedinga indawo yabo ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa.
Lokho amakati akucabangayo futhi akuzwayo ngathi (okushiwo yisayensi)
Ukubhekwa kwesikhathi eside kochwepheshe bokuziphatha kwezinsikazi, njengoJohn Bradshaw (University of Bristol), basikisela ukuthi amakati awahlukaniswa njengezinja. Abawushintshi umdlalo wabo nabantu. Ngokuphathelene nendlela abaxhumana ngayo namanye amakati: ukuphakamisa imisila yabo, ukuhlikihla emilenzeni yethu, noma ukuhlala eduze kwethu ukuziphatha abakusebenzisa phakathi kontanga yabo.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi basibheka ngokoqobo njengamakati, noma njengabaphathi noma izikhonzi. Kunalokho, bangasiphatha njengabantu abangenanzondo nabahle kakhulu., besebenzisa ingoma yabo evamile ye-feline ukuze bahlanganyele nathi. Bangase basibheke njengabantu abahlakaniphile—abangakaze bakhubeke ikati labo?—kodwa hhayi njengabaphansi.
Uma kuqhathaniswa nezinja, amakati abonakala engaphansi kokuvumelanisa nezingosi zokuxhumana nabantu. Iphepha elashicilelwa ngo-2021 ku-Animal Behavior and Cognition iphakamisa ukuthi, nakuba bethatha amasignali nemizwa, abatoliki ukuguquguquka kwezenhlalo yethu ngokujula okufana nezinja.
Ingabe singakwazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi bacabangani? Izifundo zisadingeka emikhakheni eminingi, kodwa kunobufakazi obucacile: bafunda ngokuhlangenwe nakho okuqondile lokho okusebenzela umuntu ngamunye, balungisa ukuziphatha kwabo ekuphenduleni kwethu futhi bakhe izibopho ezizinzile nalabo ababanikeza ukuvikeleka nezinsiza.
Uma uke wabamba ikati lakho likugqolozele—njengoSheldon ekugqolozele esofeni—kulula ukucabanga ukuthi uyakwahlulela. Ngokuvamile lokho kubukeka kuwukunaka, ukuhlola umongo noma umane ulinde isimiso esilandelayo (ukudla, ukudlala noma isihlwathi), kunokugxekwa kwenkabi kwenkulumo yakho yokugcina.
Indlela abaxhumana ngayo nathi: izwi, amasignali, nokufunda
Esinye sezici ezithakazelisa kakhulu ukuthi amakati amadala awavamile ukuhlangana, kodwa ayasithinta. I-meow icushwe kahle njengesiteshi esiqondiswa umuntu, isu lokuthola ukunakwa, ukuvula iminyango, ukucela ukudla noma ukuzwakalisa ukungakhululeki.
Izwi lomuntu libalulekile. Ucwaningo lwakamuva lubonisa ukuthi bayalazi izwi lomfundisi wabo futhi basabela ngendlela ehlukile kunelomuntu angamazi. Izifundo ezifana nalezo zikaCharlotte de Mouzon (2023) Abonisa ukuthi amakati ayabandlulula inkulumo eqondiswe kuwo futhi abonise isithakazelo esengeziwe uma evela kumuntu abhekisela kuwo futhi anothando ngephimbo.
Bafunda futhi amagama ngokuhlanganisa. Umsebenzi kaSaito et al. (2019) Kwabonisa ukuthi bangahlukanisa igama labo kwamanye amagama; futhi ekhaya, bangahlobanisa amagama anjengokuthi “ukudla,” “woza,” noma imikhuba nezenzakalo ezijabulisayo uma siziphindaphinda njalo.
Umzimba wabo nathi uhlanganisa ukuhlikihla (ukuphawula iphunga), ukuququda ikhanda, ukugoba, ukuqhweba, ukucwayiza kancane, ngisho nokuletha “izibiliboco.” Lapho ziguqa emathangeni akho Baphinda ukuziphatha komdlwane okuhlobene nokunethezeka nokulondeka; ukwenza kwabo lokhu nawe kukhombisa ukwethemba.
Ngokungeziwe ezwini, umhlaba wakhe uyanuka kakhulu futhi uyazwa. Sibonakala ngephunga, imikhuba nomsindo hhayi ngezici zobuso; babona ukunyakaza kanye nokukhanya okufiphele kahle, kodwa ukubonakala kwabo kobuso akukuhle njengokwethu.
Umkhuba ubanikeza ukuzinza. Uma uzame ukunikeza ubumnandi obuthile ngesikhathi sekhefu lakho lekhofi ngenye intambama, ungamangali ukubona ikati lakho ngaleso sikhathi ngakusasa. Okuhlangenwe nakho okuphindaphindiwe kwakheka okulindelwe futhi lapho ziphukile, izimpawu zokucindezeleka noma ukufuna okuqhubekayo komsebenzi olindelekile kungase kuvele.
Ngokombono "wekati", uhlu lwakhe lwezinto ezibalulekile zansuku zonke lucacile: gada indawo yakhe, ukuzingela ukudlala, ukuphumula, nokubukela. Ukusebenza kahle kwamandla, hhayi ubuvila.: Balala kakhulu ukuze benze lapho kufika i-microadventure elandelayo (imvamisa bathola ukudla noma ukunakwa).
Ezindlini ezinezivakashi ezivamile noma izinguquko, ezinye izinkawu ziba nomfutho. Izisekelo zemvelo ezifana nama-pheromone diffusers kungasiza; kunezinketho zokuhweba ezidumile ezifana ne-FELIWAY Optimum, abafundisi abaningi abayisebenzisayo ukuze bakhe indawo eduduzayo.
Futhi yebo, kukhona ama-kitties ane-gourmet palates. Uma bethanda ukudla okuthile—ngokwesibonelo, i-Happy Snack ka-FELIWAY—futhi bakuthole ngezikhathi ezingabikezelwa, Bayowulindela ngokunembile lowo mkhubaOkubalulekile wukuhlanganisa lezi ziqinisekiso zibe yinqubo enempilo futhi kungabi ukuphela kwendlela yokuxhumana.
Ingcindezi, ukuhlala kwamakati amaningi, nokufunda ekhaya okuthambile
Amakati amaningi afuywayo aqongelela ukucindezeleka ngaphandle kokuqaphela abanakekeli bawo. Ukuhlalisana okushubile phakathi kwezinsikazi Kusemuva kwezimpi kanye nengxenye enkulu yokuvakashela udokotela wezilwane ngenxa yokulimala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinkinga ezifana ne-idiopathic cystitis, dermatitis noma i-lipidosis yesibindi kungase kubhebhethekiswe ukucindezeleka okungapheli.
Ngaphambi kokuthi "ukwelapha" yonke into, kuyalulekwa ukuthi ubuyekeze indlela yokuphila yekati futhi wazi ukuthi nini yazi uma ikati lami linomkhuhlane. Hlukanisa izinsiza futhi udale ezakho izindawo (izitsha zokudla, amabhokisi kadoti, izigxobo zokuklwebha, izindawo zokukhosela, ukuphakama) kwekati ngalinye kunciphisa ukuncintisana futhi kuvame ukudambisa izingxabano. Ngezinye izikhathi, ukubeka amakati amabili angahambelani ezindaweni eziphambene ekhaya kuyisixazululo.
Umqondo "wokuphinda kabili ubumnandi ngamakati amabili" awusebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Amakati anobudlelwane ngezinga elithile, nokwengeza uzakwethu kufanele kwenziwe ngokuqapha, izethulo ezifakwe esigabeni B ngohlelo B uma kungenakho ukuhambisana.
Ngokuqondene nokufunda, kungenzeka ukufundisa lokho okungafanele ukwenze ngokusebenzisa amasu amahle. "Izicupho ze-booby" ezingenabungozi -njengethoyizi elilayishwe entwasahlobo elibhampayo lapho linyathela phezu kwekhawunta - likuvimbela ngaphandle kokukuhlanganisa nokulungisa. Uma usebenzisa isifutho samanzi, kungcono ukuthi ungahlanganisi ikati nawe: ama-felines anenkumbulo enhle futhi avame ukugwema labo ababangela ukukhathazeka.
Lapho ikati liphuma kwelinye igumbi, livame ukusebenzisa elikufundile: Ukukhipha iphimbo elithile kubangela ukubukeka kwakhoBahle kakhulu ekuboneni ukuthi yini ekhiqiza umphumela ngelungu ngalinye lomndeni (yebo, abanye bayazi ukuthi ubani ovuka ngo-4:00 ukuze aphuze).
Ubudlelwano nezivakashi ngomunye umhlaba. Ukungena endaweni yabo kungaba nzima kakhulu. Kumakati athile, ukunikeza izindawo eziphakeme zokucasha, izindlela zokubaleka, nokungaphoqi ukuthintana kunciphisa umuzwa ongemnandi. Umgomo akukhona ukuthi "bathande" izivakashi, kodwa ukuthi bazizwe bevikelekile lapho besekhaya.
Mayelana "nenkulumo yengane" esiyisebenzisa nabo: imisindo ethambile, ephindaphindayo, neyothando idonsa ukunaka kwabo kangcono. Inkulumo eqondiswe ezifuyweni Isebenza ngoba idlulisa ukuzola futhi iqinisa isibopho, ngale kwencazelo yezwi nezwi yamagama.
Amehlo, umsila, nezindlebe kukhuluma kakhulu. Ukucwayiza okunensayo, umsila ophakanyisiwe onephuzu eligoqekile, nezindlebe ezikhululekile kubonisa ukunethezeka; abafundi abakhule kakhulu, umsila obhakuzisa ngokushesha noma amadlebe aphansi Bangabonisa injabulo, ukwesaba, noma ukucasuka. Ukufunda lezi zimpawu kungasiza ekuvimbeleni ukungezwani nokuluma.
I-FAQ esheshayo enemibuzo evame ukubuzwa: izimpendulo ezisekelwe ezifundweni nasekuqapheliseni impilo yansuku zonke nekati yakho.
- Ingabe basibona ngobuso bethu? Hhayi ikakhulukazi; bathembela ngokuyinhloko ephunga, ezwini, nasezinkambisweni zabo ukuze bahlonze abantu babo.
- Kungani bedla kakhulu abantu? Iphimbo eliguqulelwe cishe ngokukhethekileyo ukuze lixhumane nathi futhi lifinyelele izinjongo ezithile.
- Ingabe bayayizwa imizwelo yethu? Yebo, abaningi balungisa ukuziphatha kwabo ukuze bavumelane nesimo sethu somzwelo kanye nezimpawu zomongo.
- Ingabe bakha okunamathiselwe okuvikelekile? Ucwaningo olusebenzisa izivivinyo zokunamathisela lubonisa ukuthi amakati amaningi akha izibopho ezinzile futhi ezithembayo nabanakekeli bawo.
- Kungani ungilandela endlini? Okunamathiselwe, ilukuluku kanye nesidingo sokugcina ukuxhumana nomphakathi nereferensi yabo.
- Yini ethonya ubuntu bakho? I-Genetics, okuhlangenwe nakho kwasekuqaleni, imvelo kanye nekhwalithi yesibopho somuntu.
Uma umgomo wakho uwukuthuthukisa ukuxhumana, gxila ekuvumelaneni, iphimbo, nokuqinisa okuhle. Sebenzisa igama lakhe ezimweni ezijabulisayo, phinda amagama ayisihluthulelo ahlobene nezenzo (ukudla, ukudlala, woza), bheka umzimba wengane yakho ukuze ulungise isikhathi futhi uvuze impendulo ngokuyiphulula noma ukuyiphatha, ngaphandle kokuhlukumeza.
Into elula njengokucwayiza kancane uma ekubheka kungaba ibhuloho elithinta imizwa. Lokho "cat kiss" ikhuluma ukuthi akukho usongo futhi ikhuthaza ikati ukuthi liphumule nawe; abaningi bazobuyisela isenzo, ngezinye izikhathi kuyoba ngokwanele ukuba bahlale bezolile eceleni kwakho.
"Izipho" (inyamazane noma amathoyizi) aziyona iminikelo yomuntu ngaso sonke isikhathi; zingaba umphumela wemvelo yokuzingela kanye nesifiso sokuhlanganyela umsebenzi othile. Qondisa kabusha lawo mandla ekudlaleni okuhlelekile ngezinduku noma amathoyizi alingisa inyamazane, futhi inikeza ama-scratcher aqinile ekumaka kwesiteshi nokwelula.
Akekho owazi ikati lakho njengawe, kodwa ukukhumbula ukuthi uyisilwane esinezidingo zezinsikazi—ukulawula indawo, ukubikezela, ukukhetha, nendawo yokuhlala—kukusiza uqonde izinqumo zakhe eziningi. Kusukela kulowo mbono wozwela, lokho abakucabangayo ngathi kuvamise ukuba kuhle: ababambisene abahlinzeka ngokuvikeleka, izinsiza kanye nobungane, ngisho noma ngezinye izikhathi sihamba ngokungaqondile embusweni wabo.
Ibhekwa ndawonye, idatha ipenda isithombe esihambisanayo: Amakati asihlanganisa ezweni lawo lenhlalo Besebenzisa amakhodi ensikazi (ukuhlikihla, umsila uphakeme, ukuxova), baxhumana ngamathuluzi abawashuna kahle ngolwazi (izindlela zabantu, ukuqashelwa kwezwi nokuqashelwa kwamagama), bafunda endleleni esisabela ngayo, bayacindezeleka uma isimiso sabo siwohloka, futhi bajabulela indawo ehlelekile ehlonipha imvelo yabo. Lapho silalela lezi zimpawu, ukusondelana okunokuthula nokujulile kuyaqhakaza okubonisa lokho abakuzwayo nabakucabangayo ngathi.
