Uma imizila iqinile futhi ikhalenda ligcwele, kulula ukucabanga ukuthi okungcwele kwenzeka kuphela emathempelini noma ezindaweni zokuhlala, nokuthi sonke isikhathi siwumthetho omsulwa. Nokho, labo abaye bazama ukuvula amehlo abo okholo phakathi nezinxushunxushu zokuphila kwansuku zonke bathola lokho UNkulunkulu uzenza atholakale ekhaya, emsebenzini, nakuzo zonke izenzo zokuthobeka., ngisho nalapho singenakukwazi ukubeka unyawo ebandleni noma kufanele silinganisele umsebenzi nomndeni ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa.
Lokhu okutholakele kungaphezu kombono omuhle: kuyisipiliyoni. Ukuzalwa Kwenyama akuhlenganga umphefumulo kuphela, kodwa konke ukuphila komuntu. Ngakho-ke, Uma iNkosi ikukhathalela, iyakukhathalela nokuthi wenzani, uzihlanganisa nobani, uphumula kanjani, nokuthi usebenza kanjani.Ingabe kunengqondo ukukhuluma noNkulunkulu ngamaspredishithi, izingcingo eziyinkimbinkimbi, noma ukubekezela esiminyaminyeni sezimoto? Kuwenza umqondo ophelele: uMoya ungakhanyisa umsebenzi, wenze usuku lube ngumuntu, futhi uguqule izithiyo zibe iminikelo eguqula inhliziyo.
UNkulunkulu ohlelweni: ikhaya, umsebenzi kanye nokuphumula
Abaningi baye bafunda—ngezinye izikhathi ngokumelene nokusanhlamvu—ukuthi ubukhona bukaNkulunkulu abupheleli enkathini yokukhulekela. Etafuleni lasekhishini, kukholi yevidiyo, ephasishi elingcolile, noma ngesikhathi sekhefu lekhofi, uNkulunkulu ulindile.Impilo ejwayelekile iyindawo yakhe yokudlala. Lokhu kuqiniseka kukhula lapho, ngemva kokungakwazi ukuya esontweni, umuntu eqala ukubona iNkosi “endlini yakhe,” manje osekuyihhovisi, ikilasi, kanye neshabhu.
Uma uNkulunkulu engenile emlandweni wethu, khona-ke ufuna ukuwukhulula ngokuphelele. Akubheki nje ukuthi mangaki ama-mass noma amarosari esiwaphethe, kodwa endleleni esisebenza ngayo, indlela esisabela ngayo ezingxabanweni, nendlela esibathanda ngayo abasemakhaya. Kulokhu, kuphakama imibuzo enempilo: Ngingakwazi yini ukukhuluma Naye ngezindaba ezibonakala “azinankolo”? Ingabe uzojabula uma ngiMnikeza izinkinga zehhovisi lami? Ingabe uMoya Wakhe ungangisiza ukuba ngenze umsebenzi wami ngempumelelo nangobuntu? Impendulo, etholwa abaningi, inguyebo.
Uma samukela lokhu, ukugxila kuyashintsha. Ideski liyayeka ukuba "indawo engenaNkulunkulu" futhi libe i-altare; ubunzima, emthandazweni; impumelelo, ekubongeni; kanye neziphazamiso, ekuqeqesheni isisa. Futhi, qaphela, akulula: ukuthola uNkulunkulu nsuku zonke kuwubuciko obuqeqeshwe ngemikhuba ethile.
Izihluthulelo zokubona icebo likaNkulunkulu
1. Uklanyelwe indawo
UMdali usebenza ngokuhlakanipha. Njengasemvelweni, lapho wonke umuntu ethola indawo yakhe yokuhlala, unendawo umcabango kaNkulunkuluNjengoba nje kungaba okungenangqondo ukucabanga ngehlengethwa esihlahleni noma ufudu phakathi nogwadule, akunangqondo futhi ukuphoqelela ukuphila kwethu ngaphezu komsebenzi wethu esiwabelwe. Uhlelo lukaNkulunkulu lungumuntu siqu futhi luphelele: ukulithola kuyasibeka.
2. Isono siyakulahla; ukuguqulwa kukubuyisela
Ukuwohloka kokuziphatha kuyasiphazamisa futhi kufiphaze umbono wethu ngenjongo kaNkulunkulu. Ukuguqulwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, kukubuyisela endaweni yakho.Umfanekiso wendodana yolahleko uyakuveza lokhu: indawo yakhe yayisendlini kaYise; ukuwa kwakhe kwamholela odakeni. Ukulandela izinyathelo zakhe kwakuyindlela yokuthola ikhaya lakhe nesithunzi sakhe futhi.
3. Uma uNkulunkulu ekubiza, uyakuvulela indlela yakho
U-Abrahama wezwa isimemo esazwakala njengobuhlanya: ukuba ashiye izwe lakubo nomndeni wakhe aye “ezweni engizokukhombisa lona.” Ukwethemba iZwi kwavula indlela eya endaweni yakhe yangempela, ngisho noma wedlula lokho okwakunengqondo ngokombono womuntu. Ukuguqulwa cishe kuhlale kufana nalolo hambo: ukuphuma, ukwethemba, nokuqhubekela phambili.
4. Ukulalela kwembula indlela
Kunezikhathi ezibalulekile lapho ukulalela uNkulunkulu kususa inkungu. Indodana yolahleko “yasukuma” yabuya; USawuli wawa, wabuza ukuthi iNkosi ingubani, futhi walalela ngokungena emzini. Kulokho kulunga kwazalwa uPawulu, umphostoliUma silalela izwi elingaphakathi, iZwi kanye nonembeza wethu, icebo livela isinyathelo ngesinyathelo.
5. Kukhona ukuphikiswa ngokomoya
Akuwona ubuwula ukuqaphela ukuthi kukhona amandla aphushela ebunyumbani nasekukhohlweni. Ububi bungathanda ukuthi ukuphila kwethu kungatheli zithelo.UPawuli oNgcwele uyasinxusa ukuba singakopishi umqondo wezwe, kodwa ukuba sivuselele izingqondo zethu ukuze siqonde intando kaNkulunkulu (cf. Roma 12). Ukube u-Abrahama wahlala “ekhululekile,” mhlawumbe igama lakhe belingeke lizwakale namuhla; ukube indodana yolahleko yazinikela emuzweni othi “sephuzile”, ngabe indaba yayo ilahlekile.
6. UNkulunkulu akalivezi icwecwe lokugcina
Ukuguqulwa akusona inkontileka enemiphumela eqinisekisiwe kusengaphambili. UNkulunkulu uhola nge-pedagogy futhi ngezinye izikhathi ubonisa isinyathelo esilandelayo kuphelaIhubo liyasiqinisekisa ukuthi uJehova uqinisa izinyathelo zalabo abajabulayo ngaye futhi akabavumeli bawe ngaphandle kokubasekela ( bheka iHu 37 ). UJosemaría oNgcwele wavuma ukuthi, ukuba wayebone yonke into ezayo, wayengahle abuyele emuva ekuqaleni; ngakho-ke, wayesazisa isiqondiso sikaNkulunkulu kancane kancane.
7. Ukuguqula akuwususi umlando wakho
Ubusha bukaNkulunkulu abuqedi ubuhle besikhathi esidlule; liyayihlanza liyiqondise. UPablo akazange ayeke ukuba nengqondo, ukuzimisela, umholi nokuzidla.; wabeka lezi zimfanelo enkonzweni yeVangeli. Nansi indlela uNkulunkulu enza ngayo: Uyakucela ukuba unqamule kulokho okukulimazayo, yebo, kodwa ukusizakala ngezithelo zomlando wakho, ngisho nokuwa kwakho, ukuze wenze okuhle ( cf. Roma 8:28 ).
Kungakho kubalulekile ukuhlakanipha: Nikela okwakho okwedlule ukuze uNkulunkulu akusebenziseUmuntu onqobe umlutha, isibonelo, angakwazi ukuphelezela abanye abanegunya elizalwa ngolwazi. UNkulunkulu usebenza ngalokho okukhona, ngeqiniso lakho, namaphupho okugcwaliseka kwaphakade kuwe, hhayi isileti esingenalutho.
Isikhathi sikaNkulunkulu kanye nokuncenga ngesineke
UmBhalo usikhumbuza ukuthi kuNkulunkulu "usuku olulodwa lufana neminyaka eyinkulungwane, neminyaka eyinkulungwane injengosuku olulodwa." Akalibali njengoba siqonda ukubambezeleka, kodwa uyabekezela ngoba ufisa ukuguquka kwabo bonke ( funda 2 Petru 3:8-9 ). Lokhu kugxilisa kithi isimo sengqondo esikabili: ukuphuthuma othandweni nasekuthandazeni, nokubekezela ekwamukeleni ijubane lakhe.
Esikweni elithanda ngokushesha, Umthandazo walabo abangakamazi uJesu kudinga ukubekezelaINkosi ingase ingaphenduli ngokwewashi lethu, kodwa iyazi ukuthi kufanele iphikelele nini nokuthi iyivule nini iminyango. Ungabi buhlungu ngalokho ocabanga ukuthi "ukuthulisa"; thembela ikhalenda lakhe.
Umthandazo osikiselwa umuntu esimthandayo: “Ngiyabonga, Nkulunkulu, ngokungizela lapho bengingakabheki nokubheka.” Bonisa _______ uthando lwakho ngendlela abangaluqonda; futhi uma uthanda, ngisebenzise ukubamema ukuba bahambe nawe. Ngifundise ukunakekela lowo muntu futhi ngibonise ububele bakho. Nginike isineke ukuze ngithembele esikhathini sakho futhi ngingapheli amandla.
Imikhuba elula yokuthandaza ngendlela evamile
1) Nikeza lokho ongakuthanda kakhulu ngosuku
Guqula lowo msebenzi ovilapha ngawo noma leso sikhathi ozizwa njengomzabalazo wokukhuphuka ube umnikelo. Yithi: «Nkosi, lokhu kungokwakho kanye nalabo abasesimweni esibi kakhulu namuhla.Uzothola ukuthi isimo sengqondo sihlanzwa kanjani futhi uthando lukhula ezintweni ezincane.
2) Nikeza ukukhungatheka kwakho kulabo abahluphekayo
Uma okuthile kungasebenzi, esikhundleni sokukhala ngokungapheli, kuguqule kube umkhulumeli: "Ngikunikeza lolu sizi ngo-N. nalabo abadinga induduzo."Ukukhungatheka kuyeka ukukuvalela futhi kuba usizo olusebenzayo.
3) Thandaza njalo lapho ungena emotweni
Yenza lesi senzo sansuku zonke sibe yi-ejaculation: "Hamba nami, Nkosi, futhi kwangathi ngingeza ngokuthula ngenze okuhle." Xhumanisa isiteringi nobukhona bukaNkulunkulu futhi uzobona ukuthi kusishintsha kanjani isitayela sakho sokushayela kanye nesineke sakho emgwaqeni.
4) Lalela imikhuleko noma i-podcast engokomoya ngenkathi uhlanza
Inhlanzeko noma ukuhleleka kungaba isikole somthandazo. Umthandazo olalelwayo noma okuqukethwe okondla umphefumulo ikusiza ukuthi uhlanganise izandla nenhliziyoIkhaya liba isigodlo sasekhaya.
5) Busisa itafula ngaphambi kokudla
Phinda uthole noma zama ukuthinta okulula: bonga ngaphambi kokudla. Ukuthi “ngiyabonga” kusikhumbuza ukuthi yonke into iyisipho. nokuthi uNkulunkulu futhi usondela ekudleni.
Ubuhle, ubuciko kanye nobungcwele phakathi kwezwe
UNkulunkulu futhi ukhuluma ngobuhle, ngobuciko, ngemvelo, nangokuhlangana okungalindelekile. Umsebenzi okushukumisayo, isenzo sobuntu noma ingxoxo ekhanyayo kungaba ukuvakasha okuvela kuNkulunkulu.Ukusebenzisa amathalenta awamukelwe kuwukuthi “yebo” kuMuphi.
Akukhona mayelana nokubalekela izwe, kodwa kunalokho mayelana nokuhlala kulo ngokuhlakanipha: "ukuba semhlabeni ngaphandle kokuba yikho." Akukona konke okufanele, kodwa abahlanzekile, abahle nabaqinisileyo basisondeza kuNkulunkulu.Leyo yikhampasi enhle yokukhetha amafilimu, umculo, izinto zokufunda, nobungane.
Kukhona abangcwele ababephila ngokugcwele emphakathini: U-Gianna Beretta Molla wayeyijabulela imfashini nokuvakasha; Pier Giorgio Frassati Wayethanda izintaba nenkundla yemidlalo yaseshashalazini; UFelipe Neri wayenamahlaya akhazimulayo. Akukho kulokhu okwabavimba ezulwini: babekwazi ukuphila ngomoya wothando.
Futhi kunezithombe zeVangeli eliphilayo ezisishiya sinkemile. EMiseni, umyeni waphusha isihlalo somkakhe, owayephethwe i-Alzheimer's, wasondela eduze neSidlo; Ngesineke nangesisa wamsiza wamukela uJesuNgezinye izikhathi, lapho “singazizwa” kakhulu ezinkonzweni, uNkulunkulu ufika asihlangabeze ngale ndlela: othandweni oluphikelelayo olugcina izithembiso zalo.
Funda ukuthandaza ngendlela engokoqobo: indlela engokoqobo
Umthandazo, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ubuhlobo: ukupha nokwamukela. I-YouCat ikufingqa kanjena, nokuthi labo abahamba nentsha ezifundeni nasezifundeni zezifunda babhekana kanjani nakho. Umvangeli ongumakad’ ebona, oqeqeshelwe imfundiso yenkolo nekhathekhisi, owayekhonza iminyaka eminingi futhi namuhla okhonza enkonzweni yentsha, uhlanganyela iziqondiso ezintathu ezilula. ukuqala impilo yomthandazo ongokoqobo.
1) Beka isikhathi somthandazo wakho
Uma kungekho ukuqokwa, kuhlala "kuyinhloso enhle." Khetha isikhathi esithile sosuku futhi uthembekeUngaqala ngemigomo emincane (imizuzu emibili ngesonto lokuqala, emihlanu elandelayo) futhi usebenze ngendlela yakho kuze kufike esikhathini ongakwazi ukusisekela ngaphandle kokudebeselela izibopho zakho. Njengoba uMama Teresa esho: sibizelwe ukwethembeka, hhayi "ukuphumelela."
Ukusetha i-aphoyintimenti kuyasiza uma ingcindezi noma iziphazamiso zicindezela. Uma iku-ajenda, kuzoba lula ukunamathela kuyo.Umkhuba wenza inhliziyo.
2) Qala ngaphandle kokuphelela
Ungalindi ukwazi zonke izindlela ukuze uqalise. Ubungane abufundwa encwadini yezandla: buphilwa ngokukhuluma nokulalela.Ithiphu eliwusizo kwabaqalayo: qaphela ukuthi uNkulunkulu ukhona, uyakubona, futhi uyakuthanda. Ngezinye izikhathi kuyoba okwanele ukuba "naye" ngokuthula, njengokungathi nomngane omuhle.
Thatha ikhefu elincane ngaphambi kokuthi uqale: Imizuzwana embalwa yokuthula yehlisa ijubane futhi ikubeke phambi kukaNkulunkulu, osekuvele kukhona. Kusukela lapho, khuluma, lalela, thula, noma vele uhlale.
3) Vumela umzimba usize
Isikhundla sifundeka futhi: Ukuma ukudumisa, ukuguqa ukukhonza noma ukucela intethelelo, ukuhlala ukuze ulalele futhi uzindleIzandla, ngokufanayo, ziveza: ziphakanyiswe ukuze zikhulumele, zivuleke ukwamukela, zihlangene ukuze zibuze. Inkonzo yokukhulekela isifundisa lokhu: ukuma ngesikhathi seVangeli, ukuguqa ngesikhathi sokungcweliswa, ukuhlala phakathi nekhaya.
Ukuthola ukuma okunenhlonipho nokuthandaza kuzokwenza kube lula ukukhumbula kwangaphakathi. Inhliziyo ilalela kangcono lapho umzimba uhamba nayoFuthi, njengoba uSaint Therese asho, umkhuleko uwukushisekela kwenhliziyo, ukubheka ezulwini, ukukhala kokubonga ngentokozo noma usizi; ungahlanganisi okulula.
Kufanelekile ukugcina ephaketheni lakho umusho ovela ku-Cure of Ars: "Uma ulimi lwami lungakwazi ukuphinda ukuthi ngiyakuthanda ngaso sonke isikhathi, vumela inhliziyo yami ikwenze ngaso sonke isikhathi."Kuyindlela enhle yokusekela umthandazo oqhubekayo.
Umthandazo wokwamukela icebo likaNkulunkulu empilweni yakho
Nkosi yendaba yami yenza intando yakho kimi. Ngiqondise lapho ofuna khona futhi ungibonise ukuthi ulungiselelani.Thatha ngisho nezinkumbulo ezimbi zokwehluleka kwami futhi uziguqule zibe umusa ophilayo. Hlanyela ukuthela kimi ungifundise ukubeka amathalenta ami emsebenzini wakho.
Ngikunika umsebenzi wami: ukuthi kube yindawo yokwakha hhayi yokuguga. Ngiyise kuleyo ndawo lapho, ngesandla sakho, umzamo uzongakha futhi ungondle. Ngicela uthathe izandla zami, izimfanelo zami, nolwazi lwami engiluqongelele, futhi uqondise konke eMbusweni wakho. Ngiphe umusa wokufunda kokwami okwedlule ngaphandle kokugxila kukho.
Angidingi ukubona umphumela: Ngifuna ukukuxhawula nje ngikulalele kuze kube sekugcineniNgenze ngithembeke, ngifundise ukuhamba ezinyathelweni zakho, ungiphe bonke ubungane bakho. Amen.
Le ndlela yokuphila ngokholo—ukufuna uNkulunkulu ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, ukuqonda icebo lakhe isinyathelo ngesinyathelo, ukuthandaza ngemikhuba emincane nephikelelayo, nokufunda kwabangcwele nezibonelo ezisizungezile— Shintsha impilo yansuku zonke ibe yindawo yokuhlanganaLabo abenza lezi zindlela bathola ukuthi ikhaya, ihhovisi, kanye nomgwaqo kuba amathempeli, ukuthi isikhathi sikaNkulunkulu siyabekezela futhi siphelele, nokuthi uthando lwakhe luyakwazi ukwenza umlando wethu, nokukhanya kwawo kanye nezithunzi, ube nezithelo.
