Njalo ngomhlaka-13 kuMbasa, Usuku Lomhlaba Wonke LokuqabulanaUsuku oluye lwathandwa kakhulu kwabezindaba, ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, nasezingxoxweni zansuku zonke naphezu kokungaqashelwa ngokusemthethweni yizinhlangano ezifana ne-UN. Kunokuba kube umbhalo waphansi nje wekhalenda, seluyithuba lokukhuluma ngalo uthando, impilo, isiko kanye nezindlela zokuhlobana emhlabeni okhula ngokwedijithali.
Lo mkhosi waqala ngokuphathelene nomlando ophawulekayo owafinyelelwa eThailand, kodwa namuhla uyasikhumbuza futhi indima yokuqabulana empilweni yansuku zonkeKusukela ekubingelelaneni phakathi kwabangani nomndeni eSpain naseYurophu, kuya ekubeni khona kwayo kumafilimu, ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, kanye nezikhathi ezinhle zabezindaba eziqoshwe enkumbulweni ehlangene.
Umsuka omangalisayo woSuku Lokuqabulana Lomhlaba Wonke
Usuku Lokuqabulana Lomhlaba Wonke aluzange luqale emkhankasweni wesikhungo noma esimemezelweni esisemthethweni, kodwa luqale emkhankasweni umncintiswano wokukhuthazela wothando Ibanjelwe eThailand. Edolobheni lasePattaya, umncintiswano wokuqabulana ubulokhu uhlelwe iminyaka eminingi eduze noSuku LukaValentine, lapho imibhangqwana eminingana ibhekene nenselele yokugcina izindebe zayo zinamathele ndawonye isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka.
Kolunye lwalezi zinhlelo, umbhangqwana waseThailand, u-Ekkachai noLaksana Tiranarat, bafinyelele irekhodi lokuqala lomlando ngo-2011. Amahora angu-46 okuqabulana okungapheliLesi sigameko sasakazeka emhlabeni wonke futhi sagcina sigubha umhla ziyi-13 kuMbasa emakhalendeni amaningi okokuqala njengosuku olunikezelwe ekwangeni.
Eminyakeni emibili kamuva, abalingiswa abafanayo baphinde bazidlula kulowo mncintiswano futhi babeka lokho okusaqhubeka nokuba yikho ukuqabulana okude kakhulu okurekhodiwe Ku-Guinness World Records: amahora angu-58, imizuzu engu-35 kanye nemizuzwana engu-58 yokuqabulana ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka. Imithetho yayiqinile: babengenakuhlukana ngisho nokuya endlini yokugezela, kwakudingeka bahlale bemile, bexhumana njalo, futhi bafakazele ukuthi babeyizithandani ezizinzile noma abashadile.
Inselele yayihlanganisa nezidingo ezisemthethweni: imibhangqwana kwakufanele ibe ushadile ngokusemthethweni noma ufakazele ubudlelwano obuzinzile ngemibhalo kanye nezincwadi zomndeni. Umklomelo, ngaphezu kokunaka kwabezindaba, wawuhlanganisa umklomelo wemali ongaba ama-euro angu-2.500 kanye nezindandatho ezimbili zedayimane.
Lesi sigaba sagcina sisusiwe yiGuinness ngenxa izidingo zomzimba nezokuthutha okwakusho ukuthi, okwenza irekhodi libe yinto ecishe ibe yinganekwane. Kodwa-ke, indaba yayisivele idumile: abezindaba kanye nezinkundla zokuxhumana baqala ukubiza umhla ziyi-13 kuMbasa njengoSuku Lokuqabulana Lomhlaba Wonke, futhi usuku lwasungulwa njengesikhumbuzo esidumile esigcinwa ngaphandle kwesiko lomphakathi.
Kubalulekile, noma kunjalo, ukungadidanisi lo mkhosi nezinye izinsuku ezifanayo. Kwamanye amazwe akhuluma isiNgisi, bakhuluma Usuku Lomhlaba Lokuqabulana Umhla wesi-6 kuNtulikazi futhi usuku lokugubha uSuku Lokuqabulana Lukazwelonke, nangoJulayi, olunencazelo nemvelaphi ehlukile. Lokhu kuhlala ndawonye kwezinsuku kubonisa ukuthi Akukho usuku olulodwa olusemthethweni olukhona.kodwa imigubho eminingana yamasiko yayigxile esenzweni esifanayo.
Indaba eneminyaka eyizinkulungwane ubudala: kusukela emasikweni asendulo kuya ekuziphatheni kwansuku zonke
Nakuba uSuku Lokuqabulana Lomhlaba Wonke luqale muva nje, isenzo ngokwaso sikhona izimpande zakudala kakhuluImibhalo evela eNdiya esukela ezinkulungwaneni zeminyaka kakade iqukethe izincazelo zezenzo ezifana nokuqabulana njengophawu lokusondelana nokusondelana. ERoma lasendulo, ukuqabulana kwakungabonisa inhlonipho, ubungane, noma ubudlelwano bothando, futhi izinhlobo ezahlukene zokuqabulana zazisetshenziswa kuye ngesimo somphakathi kanye nohlobo lobuhlobo phakathi kwabantu.
EYurophu yasendulo, ukwanga kwakune- umsebenzi wezenhlalo nowezepolitikiIzikhonzi zazinga isandla noma indandatho yamakhosi azo njengophawu lokuzithoba nenhlonipho, kanti izivumelwano zazingaqiniswa ngokwanga njengophawu lokuzibophezela. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lesi sici somkhosi sathatha indawo ngokwanga okuseduze, okuhlobene kakhulu nothando lothando kanye nendawo yangasese.
Namuhla, ukwanga kuhamba phakathi kwezinto zansuku zonke nezingavamile. Kuyisenzo esingabonakala ku amasiko omndeni, ukubingelela okungakahleleki, noma izikhathi ezibalulekile ngokomzwelo, njengokuvalelisa eziteshini zesitimela, ukuhlangana okude, noma imikhosi yezemidlalo. Ukuguquguquka kwayo kuyenza ibe nezincazelo ezihluke kakhulu ngenkathi ihlala ibonakala cishe yonke indawo emhlabeni.
Ezingeni lamasiko, ukwanga kusalokhu kuwuphawu olunamandla. Bekulokhu kukhona ku- imisebenzi yobuciko, izincwadi kanye namafilimuNgisho nanamuhla, kuvela kakhulu kumafilimu, ochungechungeni lwethelevishini, kanye nemikhankaso yokukhangisa. Isithombe sabantu ababili beqabulana sibonisa imibono yothando, ukwethembana, ubumbano, noma ngisho nokungqubuzana, futhi incazelo yaso incike kakhulu kumongo.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukwanda kwamadivayisi eselula kanye nezingcingo zevidiyo kuye kwethula izinhlobo ezingokomfanekiso zokuqabulana: izithonjana, imiyalezo yezwi, izithombe, namavidiyo afuna ukukhiqiza kabusha, ngandlela thile, lokho kubonakaliswa kothando ngokomzimba Uma ukuxhumana ubuso nobuso kungenzeki, ukuxhumana okuqondile kuhlala kuyinto enzima ukuyithatha indawo.
Indlela abantu abaqabulana ngayo eSpain naseYurophu: ulimi oluvamile olunezindlela zalo zokukhuluma
Ukuqabulana kuwulimi oluvame kakhulu, kodwa Ayisetshenziswa ngendlela efanayo yonke indawoESpain, kuyisiko ukubingelelana ngokwanga okubili ezihlathini ezindaweni ezingahlelekile, ikakhulukazi phakathi komndeni, abangane, kanye nabantu obajwayele. Kuyisenzo esicishe sizenzekele esisebenza njengesethulo sothando.
Kwamanye amazwe aseYurophu aseduze, njengeSwitzerland, iBelgium, noma iNetherlands, kuvamile ukubingelelana ukwanga okuthathuEsimweni sesiDashi, kulandelwa ngisho nohlelo oluthile: kuqala esihlathini sesobunxele, bese kuba ngakwesokudla, bese kuba emuva kwesobunxele. Izinguquko ezincane ezibonisa ukuthi isenzo esifanayo sithatha kanjani ezicini zendawo eziphawulwe kakhulu.
Ezindaweni zezombusazwe kanye nezobunhloli, kube nezinhlobo zokuqabulana ezinencazelo enamandla engokomfanekiso. Leyo eyaziwa ngokuthi “Ukwanga kwaseRussia” noma “ukuqabulana kobuzalwane bososhiyali” Kwaphela amashumi eminyaka, kwakuyindlela ejwayelekile yokubingelelana phakathi kwabaholi bamazwe obuKhomanisi, kanti isithombe esidumile sikaBrezhnev noHonecker singesinye sezibonelo ezisakazwa kabanzi. Kwakuyisenzo esenzelwe ukuveza ubunye, ukulingana, kanye nokuzwana ngemibono.
Kwezinye izifunda, njengezingxenye zomhlaba wama-Arabhu, kuyagcinwa ukwanga ebunzini njengophawu lwenhlonipho nothando olujulile, ikakhulukazi kubantu abadala noma abantu ababalulekile emndenini. Futhi, lesi senzo siyabonakala, kodwa isimo saso kanye nencazelo yaso ethile kuyashintsha ngokwesiko.
Lokhu kwehlukahlukana kwamasiko kusho ukuthi umhla ziyi-13 kuMbasa awugcini nje ngokuba usuku lwezinto ezimangalisayo, kodwa futhi njengomzuzu wokubuka ukuthi Izindinganiso zomphakathi zilawula ukuthintana ngokomzimbaKweminye imiphakathi, ukwanga esidlangalaleni kuyinto yemvelo; kweminye, kugcinelwe izikhathi zangasese noma kubukwe ngokusola, okuphinde kuthonye indlela okubonwa ngayo lesi senzakalo.
Kwenzekani emzimbeni uma uqabulana: ama-hormone, imisipha kanye nokuzivikela
Nakuba abantu abaningi bebona ukuqabulana njengesenzo sothando, isayensi ibilokhu ikufunda iminyaka eminingi ngenxa yaso umthelela ngokomzimba nangokomzweloOchwepheshe bezokwelapha umndeni, isayensi yezinzwa kanye nokusebenza kwengqondo bayavuma ukuthi ukuqabulana kubangela uchungechunge lwezenzo emzimbeni ezithinta inhlalakahle iyonke.
Ngokombono wemisipha, kubalwe ukuthi ukwanga kungasebenza kuze kufike ku- Imisipha yobuso engu-34 kanye nemisipha engaphezu kwekhulu yesimo somzimba. Lo mzamo usiza ekuthuthukiseni ukujikeleza kwegazi endaweni yobuso futhi ukhuthaza ukukhiqizwa kwe-collagen, okusiza ekuvimbeleni ukugoba kanye nemibimbi ngezinga elithile. Akuyona indawo yokunakekelwa kwesikhumba okunye, kodwa kuwukuzivocavoca okuhle, kwemvelo.
Ngokuphathelene nokusetshenziswa kwamandla, ukwanga okunothando kungavutha phakathi Amakhalori angu-2 no-26 ngomzuzuKuye ngobukhulu kanye nesimo somzimba, akuyona into yezemidlalo ngokwayo, kodwa yengeza eqoqweni lokunyakaza kwansuku zonke, okuthi uma kuphindaphindwa, kube nomthelela omncane esisindweni kanye nesimo somzimba.
Ezingeni lamahomoni kanye nobuchopho, ukuqabulana kuvuselela ukukhishwa i-oxytocin, i-dopamine, ne-serotoninLezi zinto zihlotshaniswa nenjabulo, ukunamathela, kanye nokulawulwa kwemizwa. Le nhlanganisela isiza ukunciphisa amazinga e-cortisol, i-hormone yokucindezeleka, okudala umuzwa wokuzola, ukulondeka, kanye nokusondelana nomunye umuntu.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukuqabulana kuveza ukwanda okuncane kwemithambo yegazi, okungaba nomthelela ekukhuleni kwemithambo yegazi. umfutho wegazi ophansi Kwabanye abantu, kukhuthaza ukukhiqizwa kwamathe. Lokhu kukhula kwamathe kusiza ekuhlanzeni umlomo, kuqede amagciwane, futhi kuqede ama-asidi athinta i-enamel yamazinyo, ngakho-ke ukuqabulana nakho kunomthelela omuhle empilweni yomlomo.
Esinye sezici eziphawuleka kakhulu ukushintshana kwamagciwane. Ngemizuzwana eyishumi nje yokuqabulana okukhulu, amashumi ezigidi zamagciwane angashintshwana. Kunokuba kube yingozi nje, lokhu kushintshana kusebenza, ezimweni eziningi, njenge- "umuthi wokugomela omncane wemvelo" okuveza amasosha omzimba ezifweni ezintsha futhi okuqinisa amandla awo okusabela.
Ochwepheshe bezengqondo bagcizelela nokuthi cishe konke ukwanga, okunikezwayo noma okwamukelwayo, kushiya uphawu olungokomzwelo. Ngokusebenzisa izindawo zobuchopho ezihlobene nomjikelezo womvuzo, ukubopha, kanye nenkumbulo yemizwa, ukwanga kunegalelo... qinisa umuzwa wokuba yingxenye kanye nokuzihlonipha, uma nje kwenzeka esimweni senhlonipho nokuvumelana.
Ukuqabulana njengesenzo esithinta imizwa kanye nethuluzi lokubopha
Ngale kwedatha yomzimba, inani lokuqabulana liqondakala kangcono uma libhekwa njenge- uhlobo lokuxhumana okungenazwiUkuqabulana kungaveza uthando, isifiso, ukusekelwa, noma induduzo ngaphandle kwesidingo segama elilodwa, yingakho abantu abaningi bekukhumbula njengengxenye yezinye zezikhathi ezibaluleke kakhulu empilweni yabo.
Izazi zengqondo ezigxile ekuhlanganiseni ngokomzwelo zigcizelela ukuthi ukuqabulana kungenza umuntu azizwe okukhethiwe, okubalulekile nokucatshangelwayoLowo muzwa wokubaluleka uhlanganiswa nendlela umuntu azibona ngayo kanye nendlela umuntu achaza ngayo ubudlelwano nomunye umuntu, kungaba umlingani, ilungu lomndeni noma umngane oseduze.
Lokhu kushaja ngokomzwelo kuchaza ukuthi kungani, ngisho nasezimweni zokungqubuzana noma ukungezwani, ukwanga kungasebenza njenge isenzo sokubuyisana noma ukuvalwa kwesigaba esiyinkimbinkimbi. Akuzixazululi izinkinga ngokwazo, kodwa kusebenza njengophawu olubonisa ushintsho lwezwi ebudlelwaneni.
Emndenini, ukwanga nakho kudlala indima ebalulekile. Obaba abaningi, omama, ogogo nomkhulu, kanye nabafowabo nodadewabo bakusebenzisa njenge ukubonakaliswa kothando kwansuku zonkeKusukela ekwangeni okuhle ebusuku kuya ekubingelelweni lapho ufika ekhaya, le mikhuba emincane iqinisa umuzwa wokulondeka ebuntwaneni futhi yakha ukwethembana kwesikhathi eside.
Ebudlelwaneni bothando, ukwanga kufeza izinjongo ezahlukene: kungaqala ubudlelwano, kugcine ukusondelana ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, noma kuvuselele ukusondelana ngemva kwezikhathi zokucindezeleka noma ibanga. Indlela ukwanga okunikezwa ngayo, ukuvama kwako, kanye nomongo kwembula okuningi ngobuhlobo. isimo sesixhumanisingisho noma kungakhulunywa.
Ukuqabulana okwenze umlando eSpain, eYurophu kanye namasiko athandwayo
Amandla angokomfanekiso okuqabula abonakala futhi enanini izikhathi zemidiya ezigxile kulesi senzo. ESpain, esinye sezikhumbuleka kakhulu eminyakeni yamuva nje ukwanga phakathi kuka-Iker Casillas nentatheli uSara Carbonero ngemuva komdlalo wamanqamu weNdebe Yomhlaba yaseNingizimu Afrika ka-2010. Leso senzakalo, esasakazwa bukhoma ngesikhathi senhlolokhono, saba uphawu lokugubha kanye nemizwa ehlanganyelwe, futhi sikhumbuza ezinye izindawo ezinomlando njenge- Qabula umgwaqo.
Ucwaningo olwenziwe yizinkundla zokunyathelisa izithombe zaseYurophu lubonisa ukuthi iningi labahlanganyeli libona lokho kuqabulana njengo enye yezinto ezikhumbuleka kakhulu kwezemidlalo zaseSpain zakamuva, yize eziningi zalezi zifundo zingachazi usayizi noma imvelaphi eqondile yesampula, ngakho-ke imiphumela yazo kufanele ifundwe ngokucophelela.
Emhlabeni jikelele, okunye ukwanga kube yizimpawu ezibalulekile: okuka- UBritney Spears noMadonna Imiklomelo Yomculo Wevidiyo Yama-MTV ka-2003, noma ukwanga kokuqala komphakathi phakathi kukaTaylor Swift noTravis Kelce, okwabiwe kabanzi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, kuyizibonelo zendlela lesi senzo esisetshenziswa ngayo ukwakha izindaba zabezindaba, ukuthumela imiyalezo engokomfanekiso, noma ukumane kukhuthaze ingxoxo yomphakathi.
Ukuba khona kokuqabulana efilimini nakho kudlale indima ebalulekile ekwenzeni isenzo sibe sijwayelekile. Abaqondisi abanjengo-Alfred Hitchcock bafuna izindlela zokwenza lokhu. gwema imikhawulo kokuvinjelwa kwesikhathi sayo. Isibonelo, efilimini ethi "Notorious" (1946), ukulandelana kokuqabulana okuncane okuphazamisekile imizuzu engaphezu kwemibili kwasetshenziswa ukuze kugwenywe umthetho owawunciphisa isikhathi sazo esikrinini.
Lolu hlobo lwamaqhinga lusize ukuthi ukwanga kuyeke ukubhekwa njengento eyihlazo kuma-cinema ezentengiselwano futhi esikhundleni salokho kuthathe indawo ebalulekile ezindabeni zothando. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, izigcawu zokuqabulana emvuleni, eziteshini zesitimela, noma kuma-movie amakhulu sezibe... izithombe zakudala ezivela emcabangweni ohlangene.
Esikhathini se-inthanethi kanye namapulatifomu edijithali, izithombe namavidiyo okuqabulana kuye kwanda. Ezinye izifundo ngokusetshenziswa kwezithombe zibonisa ukuthi ingxenye enkulu yabantu icabanga ukuthi Izithombe zokuqabulana zibalulekile ngesithombe abasiveza ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, nokuthi abasebenzisi abaningi bayavuma ukuthi baziqhathanisa nalokho abakubona ku-inthanethi, okungathonya ukuzethemba kwabo kanye nendlela ababona ngayo ubudlelwano babo.
Ukuqabulana enkathini yezikrini: izinkundla zokuxhumana, ukuzethemba, kanye nobuqiniso
Izinkundla zokuxhumana zishintshe indlela izenzo zothando eziboniswa futhi zabelwana ngayo. Lokho okwakuyimfihlo manje sekungaba okuqukethwe okusabalalayo ngemizuzu embalwaFuthi lokho kuthinta indlela ukwanga okubonwa ngayo futhi okuchazwa ngayo, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwabantu abasebasha.
Ezinye izihlaziyi zibonisa ukuthi cishe ingxenye eyodwa kwezinhlanu yalabo ababuziwe bayaqaphela ukuziqhathanisa nezithombe zokuqabulana abakubona ku-inthanethi. Lesi simo singadala ingcindezi yokuphinda izigcawu ezinhle noma ezinhle kakhulu, ezikude kakhulu neqiniso lansuku zonke, futhi zivuse amathemba angewona angempela ngobudlelwano.
Ngokombono wengqondo, ukubaluleka kokuqonda ukwanga njengoba ukubonakaliswa kwangempela kothandohhayi njengesenzo esihloselwe ukuthwetshulwa noma ukwabelwana ngaso kuphela. Ukulondoloza lo mbono kusiza ukuvikela ukuzethemba futhi kuvimbele ukuqinisekiswa kwangaphandle, ngendlela "yokuthanda" noma ukuphawula, ukuthi kungadluli ulwazi lwangempela lwaleso sikhathi.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, amapulatifomu edijithali avumele ukuthi izenzo ezithile, ezazigcinelwe amafilimu noma imicimbi emikhulu, zibe yinto evamile ezinkundleni zethu zokuxhumana: ukwanga okugubhayo emishadweni, impumelelo yezemidlalo, ukuhlangana kwemindeni, noma ngisho nemibhikisho kanye nemiboniso. Lokhu kuvezwa kunegalelo ekwenzeni kube yinto evamile izinhlobo eziningi zothando nothandoyize futhi kuvula izingxoxo mayelana nobumfihlo kanye nokuvezwa ngokweqile.
Naphezu kwakho konke, umongo womhla ziyi-13 kuMbasa njengoSuku Lokuqabulana Lomhlaba Wonke usalula: ukusizakala ngosuku lokugubha usuku Khumbula ukubaluleka kokuxhumana nabantu endaweni ekhula ngokushesha lapho kukhulunywa ngesikrini. Lo mcimbi wokugubha iminyaka uyasebenza, ngokwengxenye, ngoba ukhanga ulwazi oluhlanganyelwe cishe yiwo wonke umuntu, kungakhathaliseki ubudala, ulimi, noma imingcele.
Isenzo esincane esinomthelela odlula kude umhla ziyi-13 kuMbasa
Usuku Lokuqabulana Lomhlaba Wonke lwaqala ngerekhodi elimangalisayo eThailand, lusabalale emhlabeni wonke ngaphandle kokusekelwa yizikhungo, futhi luhambisana nezinye izinsuku ezifanayo ekhalendeni elidumile, kodwa amandla alo awakwazi ukuchazwa kuphela yile ndaba. Ngokugxila ekwangeni, lolu suku lusenza sikwazi ukukhuluma ngasikhathi sinye mayelana umlando, impilo, isiko, abezindaba kanye nokuphila kwansuku zonke, izici ezixhumanisayo ezivame ukuhlaziywa ngokwehlukana.
Ukuqabulana kungavuselela imisipha eminingi, kusize ekushiseni amakhalori, kuthuthukise ukujikeleza kwegazi, kukhuthaze ukukhishwa kwama-hormone azizwa kahle, kunciphise ukucindezeleka, kuqinise amasosha omzimba, futhi kuqinise izibopho ezingokomzwelo. Kungaba futhi ukubingelela eSpain, isenzo senhlonipho kwezinye izifunda, uphawu lwezepolitiki, isigcawu esivela ku-movie, isithombe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, noma nje isiko lomndeni ngaphambi kokulala. Kuzo zonke lezi zimo, kunento eyodwa efanayo: Kuyindlela eqondile yokuveza ukusondelana ngaphandle kwamazwi..
Mhlawumbe yingakho, yize abantu abaningi bengazi ukuthi umhla ziyi-13 kuMbasa usuku olunikezelwe ekwangeni, abadingi ukubheka ikhalenda ukuze bakwenze. Isikhumbuzo, phela, asidali isenzo, kodwa sinikeza isizathu sokusinaka nokukhumbula ukuthi, phakathi kwezaziso, izikrini, kanye nokushesha kwempilo yansuku zonke, isenzo esilula kangaka sokuxhumana sisabalulekile endleleni esixhumana ngayo kanye nendlela esizizwa ngayo.