Abantu abaningi badinga imithandazo yakho ukuze bakwazi ukufeza izenzo noma izithakazelo. Ukulahlekelwa yizinto kuyingxenye yesicelo somthandazo, Isiko laso libhekise kuSan Cucufato, usanta ongumvikeli wezinto ezilahlekile. Ungomunye wabangcwele ababalulekile enkolweni yamaKatolika nabaswele kakhulu. Sizokwazi umthandazo odumile oya eSan Cucufato ukuthola izinto ezilahlekile.
Lo musho une-a incazelo ehlekisayo kanye nemimoya ye-folkloric. Ukuthatha lesi sicelo ngokungathi sína, abantu abaningi baye bakholelwa kulesi sicelo futhi umlingo usuvele. UCucufato noma uCucufate ungcwele ongumKristu owashumayela kuyo yonke iNhlonhlo Yase-Iberia ngekhulu lesi-3. Kwakunemizamo eminingi yokumbulala ezandleni zamaRoma futhi izikhathi eziningi wakwazi ukubalekela imizamo enjalo, waze wabulawa ngenxa yesifiso sakhe sokuya ezulwini ngokufela ukholo.
Ingabe ulahlekelwe into? Sebenzisa umkhuleko oya eSan Cucufato
Lo santa uyingxenye yenkolo yamaKhatholika futhi udume kakhulu ngokusebenzisa umkhuleko nokuthola izinto ezilahlekile. Kufanele uphindaphinde amagama alandelayo:
“Saint Cucufato, Saint Cucufato, yini ekuzwisa ubuhlungu kakhulu engikubophayo, ngize ngingakutholi. (cela okulahlekile futhi ofuna ukukuthola) Ngeke ukhululwe.”
Ibinzana kumele lihambisane nesenzo sokubopha iduku noma intambo, njengophawu lokuzibophezela emshweni ophindaphindwe.
“Oh, Saint Cucufato, mvikeli walabo abafuna izinto ezilahlekile, ngicela ungisize ngithole lokho engilahlekele. Bheka ngomusa ubuhlungu bami futhi ungibheke ngobubele, ukuze ngisheshe ngithole lokho engilahlekile. Ngokuncenga kwakho, ngizokuthola engikulahlekele. Lokhu ngikubuza ngobuhle benhliziyo yakho. Amen".
Kubalulekile gcina ukholo, uzolile futhi ugxile. Kufanele ukucabangele lokhu isisho njengesiko lomlomo, hhayi njengomkhuba osemthethweni weSonto LamaKatolika. Phinda umthandazo izikhathi eziningana zilandelana ukuze usebenze, ngaso sonke isikhathi unenhloso enhle yokuthi uzokwazi ukuwuthola.
Abantu abaningi bancamela ukukhanyisa ikhandlela njengophawu lokuzinikela, baze baphindaphinde imishwana ngesikhathi beyifuna leyo nto.
Ingabe ikhona eminye imithandazo yokuthola izinto ezilahlekile?
Yebo ikhona imikhuleko njengesicelo ku abanye abaNgcwele. Ezinye zazo zifana ne- Umthandazo kuSaint Anthony wasePadua, owaziwa ngokuthi “ungcwele wezimangaliso”. Abantu abaningi baya kuye ukuze bathole izinto ezilahlekile.
«Saint Anthony, okhazimulayo futhi onomusa, nina enisize abaningi ukuba bathole okwakulahlekile, ngisize ngibuyisele lokho engikufunayo (yisho into). Ngikhulumele phambi kukaNkulunkulu, ukuze ngimthole masinyane. Amen."
“Impilo entsha, ukuthula nokuzola kwethu, ikhaya lethu, ukulondeka kwethu ngokwezimali, othandekayo, ithemba, amaphupho ethu, ithalenta lethu, intshiseko yethu yokuqala, ukuthobeka kwethu, ukholo lwethu, isithunzi sethu, umbono wethu, ubumsulwa bethu, inkululeko yethu, ukuthula emndenini wethu, ukuthula umphakathi wethu, ukuthembela kwethu kwabanye, ubuhle bethu, ikhaya lethu. (Yisho into elahlekile) Anthony oNgcwele, sikhulekele. IWundlu likaNkulunkulu elisusa izono zezwe. Sihawukele. Amen."
“Saint Anthony, inceku kaNkulunkulu ekhazimulayo, edume ngokufaneleka kwakho nezimangaliso ezinamandla, sisize sithole izinto ezilahlekile: sinikeze usizo lwakho ekulingweni futhi ukhanyise izingqondo zethu ekufuneni intando kaNkulunkulu. Sisize siphinde sithole impilo yomusa eyabhubhisa isono sethu futhi isiholele empahleni yenkazimulo esathenjiswa yona nguMsindisi, ophila futhi obusa kuze kube phakade naphakade. Amen."
Umdwebo weSan Cucufato
Umthandazo kuSaint Longinus. Uyaziwa kancane, kodwa ngenxa yamasiko athile uyahlonishwa futhi ucelwa ukuba athole izinto ezilahlekile.
"Oh Saint Longinus, owathola iqiniso phansi kwesiphambano, qondisa izinyathelo zami kulokho engilahlekile. Ngisize ngithole (yisho into elahlekile) futhi unginikeze isineke ngisayibheka. Amen."
Umkhuleko kuNkulunkulu wethu
“Awu, Nkulunkulu, ngisize ngithole engilahlekelwe. Nkosi ngiqondise ngithole engikulahlekele. Sengathi lomthandazo ungangikhanyisela kulokhu engilahlekelwe. Ngosizo lwakho, ngizokuthola engikulahlekele. Kwangathi amandla amahle angangisiza ngithole lokho engingilahlile.”
Ayikho indlela yokuthola into oyifunayo?
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- Okokuqala kunakho konke thula, hlala phansi uvale amehlo akho. Bona ngeso lengqondo into ofuna ukuyicinga, khumbula ukuthi bekuyinto yokugcina oyenzile noma ukuthi uyisebenzise kanjani. Ukube ubunayo ezandleni zakho,
Khumbula ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi yiziphi izinyathelo ozithathile ngokulandelayo noma ubone ngeso lengqondo izindawo odlule kuzo. Mhlawumbe ubashiye lapho unganakile.
- Uma ungafuni ukubona ngeso lengqondo isithombe sengqondo, ungenza a ukubona ngeso kungena endaweni oyikhumbulayo. Ngena kulelo gumbi futhi uhlukanise izikhala zalo ngezigaba. Ungashiyi noma yisiphi isikhala ngaphandle kokusesha nokulandela i-oda.
- Bheka zonke izikhala ezincane, njengoba yayingase ishelele noma ingene kunoma yisiphi igebe kusofa, umbhede noma ngaphansi kwezingubo.
- Bheka futhi ngelinye iso. Zibeke kwelinye ikhoneni legumbi futhi wenze umbono kusuka kwenye indawo yokubuka, mhlawumbe inkumbulo izovela.
- Cabanga ngalokho obukucabanga ngesikhathi ubambe isandla sakhe, ngoba mhlawumbe ibikuhlupha esandleni sakho futhi ubungayishiya iphumule noma yikuphi. Kuze kube nezikhathi lapho igcina isingene kudoti singazi.
- Uma kune-clutter eningi endlini, kuyoba nzima kakhulu ukuyithola. Izikhathi eziningi, ukwenza ukuhlanza okuncane noma ukudala i-oda, Uthola into obuyifuna.
- Ungakhiphi indawo, nakulezo ezibonakala zingenakwenzeka. Izikhathi eziningi basezindaweni esingazange sizicabange, njengokuthola umakhalekhukhwini ngaphakathi esiqandisini.
- Bheka futhi ezindaweni obuvele uziseshile. Impela nokuyaluza noma imizwa kwakukubi kakhulu ukungayiboni. Kungenzeka nokuthi lapho ububheke khona into imbozwe ngenye into futhi ingabonakali.