Uma sikhuluma nge-psychopath, asisho umbulali othanda igazi. Amafilimu amaningi nezincwadi kuye kwasenza sikholelwe ukuthi lolu uhlobo lomuntu oluzimisele ukubulala. Nokho, lesi sifiso esinodlame sokubulala noma ukwenza ezinye izenzo zobugebengu asingeni kule phrofayela. Ngakho-ke yini i-psychopath? Ungayibona kanjani?
Nakuba kuyiqiniso ukuthi banokubanda okugqame kakhulu nokuntula uzwela okungadala umonakalo omkhulu kwabanye abantu, akudingekile ukuba babe ababulali abalandelanayo. Ukucacisa lo mqondo, sizochaza kulesi sihloko iyini i-psychopath, ukuthi ungambona kanjani nokuthi uhluke kanjani ku-sociopath (womabili amagama avame ukudideka).
Iyini i-psychopath nokuthi ungayibona kanjani?
Yize inganekwane isenza sihlobanise i-psychopathy nababulali abalandelanayo, akumele kube ngaleyo ndlela. Ziningi izici nezici ezingavela kulesi sifo sobuntu. Lokhu kufaka phakathi ukuthatheka, i-narcissism, ukukhohlisa, nokulawula ukuziphatha ngokujwayelekile. Ukusinika umbono ocacile wokuthi iyini i-psychopath, ake sixoxe ngezici ezibaluleke kakhulu zalolu hlobo lomuntu ngezansi:
- Ukungabikho kozwela: Leli phuzu lokuqala liyimpikiswano. Abanye ochwepheshe babonisa ukuthi i-psychopaths ayiyona i-empathic, kanti abanye bakholelwa ukuthi banjalo, futhi okuningi, bavele bayisebenzise njengoba ibafanele kakhulu. Kukhona nombono wokuthi abantu abanalesi sifo abanalo uzwela lwemizwa, kodwa uzwela lokuqonda.
- I-Narcissism kanye ne-egocentrism: Ngokuvamile, i-psychopaths ihlale ikholelwa ukuthi iphakeme kunabanye, futhi ibaluleke kakhulu. Ngokusho kwabo, okwenzeka kubo kubaluleke kakhulu kunanoma yini enye. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, akumangazi ukuthi abakwazi ukuzibeka endaweni yomunye umuntu (ukungabikho kozwela, njengoba siphawulile ephuzwini lokuqala).
- Lawula ukuziphatha: Ngokuvamile bavame ukuzwa isidingo sokulawula namandla. Bafuna ukwazi yonke imininingwane kanye nabantu ababazungezile.
- Ukuphatha: Njengomphumela wephuzu langaphambilini, bangabantu abakhohlisayo ngokwedlulele. Lesi yisici esivame kakhulu kubo, esibangela nokuntula ubuqotho.
- Ukuthatheka: Kumaphrofayili abantu abane-psychopathic, amazinga aphezulu e-testosterone kanye ne-frontal cortex engasebenzi kancane kuvamile. Ngenxa yalokho, bavame ukuba namawala kakhulu. Ngokuvamile abazihleli izenzo zabo esikhathini eside. Ngaphezu kwalokho, banesikhathi esinzima kakhulu ukuzilawula. Kungakho kuvamile ngabo ukusebenzisa kabi izinto eziluthayo, njengogwayi, utshwala nezidakamizwa.
- Ubumpofu bomzwelo: Ngokuvamile, i-psychopaths ibanda kakhulu futhi ayinayo imizwa eminingi, kokubili emihle nemibi. Ukwesaba, isibonelo, akuvamile ukubathinta kakhulu noma abakwazi ukukuzwa futhi baphile njengabanye abantu.
- ucansi: Kujwayelekile ukuthi umuntu onalesi sifo abe nobudlelwano obuningi obuhlukene obuhlala buncane kakhulu. Isisusa sabo esikhulu sokusungula ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu ucansi.
- Uziro uyazisola: Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi i-psychopaths ibonisa iphrofayili eyingozi kakhulu kwabanye abantu (amanga, ukukhohlisa, ukungabi nozwela, njll.), abathambekele ekuboniseni ukuzisola.
- Impilo yeParasitic: Kuvame kakhulu ukuthi abantu abane-psychopathic basebenzise abanye. Ngokukhohlisa, bathola abanye abantu ukuba babasekele futhi babasize banelise izidingo zabo ezibaluleke kakhulu.
- Ukuziphatha kobugebengu nokungahambisani nomphakathi: Okokugcina, kusasele ukugqamisa indlela umuntu onale phrofayela angaba nayo, ngokuvamile engahambisani nomphakathi kanye nobugebengu. Nokho, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi ukuziphatha kobugebengu akuhlali kukhona. Okusho ukuthi: Akubona bonke abantu abenza ubugebengu abangama-psychopath, futhi akubona bonke abantu be-psychopath abenza ubugebengu.
Wazi kanjani ukuthi umuntu uyi-psychopath?
Manje njengoba sesazi kancane kabanzi mayelana nokuthi iyini i-psychopath, kubalulekile ukukhomba ukuthi asibona ochwepheshe futhi asikwazi ukwahlulela abantu ngenxa yayo. Baningi abantu abangaveza ezinye zezici esizibalule ngenhla ngaphandle kokuhlushwa yilesi sifo sobuntu. Ngaphandle kwalokho, Ukwenza ukuxilongwa kwengqondo kuphelele kakhulu kunalokho kubonakala. Kuze kube namuhla, izici ezihlukene nezindlela zisaphenywa ukuze kwenziwe kokubili ukuxilongwa kanye nokwelashwa okuphumelelayo (okungekho okwamanje).
Kufanele futhi kushiwo ukuthi ukuxilongwa kwengqondo kungenziwa kuphela uchwepheshe kulo mkhakha. Akusizi ngalutho ukuthi siqale ukufunda abantu abasizungezile. Ngokunokwenzeka, oyedwa noma ngaphezulu kwabalingani bethu bangaphambili bazobonakala be-psychopathic kithi, kodwa kusazoba umbono wethu ozimele ngokuphelele. Uchwepheshe uzozama ukwenza ucwaningo ngobuqotho.
Ukuze wenze lokhu, indlela esetshenziswa kakhulu i-Robert Hare psychopathy test. Yasungulwa ukuze isize izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zihlonze i-psychopaths futhi ingahlotshaniswa nezinye izifundo zesayensi yokusebenza kwengqondo. Ngokuhamba kweminyaka, imiqondo ehlukene kanye nokuvumelana nezimo kuye kwenezelwa kulolu vivinyo. Ihlola izindaba ezinjengokulawula umfutho, ubulili obuxekethile, ukuntula ukuzisola, nezinga lokucasuka komuntu okukhulunywa ngaye.
Umehluko Phakathi Kwe-Psychopath ne-Sociopath
Manje sifika embuzweni ovame ukudala ukudideka okuningi: I-psychopath ihluke kanjani ku-sociopath? Ochwepheshe abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi umehluko kuphela phakathi kwamaphrofayili amabili umsuka wayo. Ngenkathi i-psychopath izalwa nalesi sifo sobuntu, i-sociopath iyathuthuka njengoba izuza ulwazi. Ngakho-ke, lona wakamuva uyakwazi ukuba nozwela, okungenani kubantu abathile abasondelene naye.
Yebo, kuyiqiniso ukuthi zombili izinhlobo aziyihloniphi imithetho noma amalungelo abanye abantu. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, baphendukela ekukhohliseni nasekukhohliseni ukuze bathole abakufunayo, belimaza abanye ngaphandle kokuba nobudlova. Nokho, I-psychopath iyazama ukuhlanganisa nomphakathi, kodwa ngaphandle kokuheha ukunaka. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, i-sociopath ivame ukuheha ukunakwa okwengeziwe ngenxa yesithombe esiyinqaba asinikeza abanye abantu.
Ngiyethemba ukuthi yonke le mininingwane ikwenze kwacaca ukuthi iyini i-psychopath nokuthi kungani kungafanele sihlale siyihlanganisa nokubulala, igazi kanye nokusangana.